7. Muslim code of behaviour
114.
According to Islamic teachings, apart from having the right belief how
important is it for a person to do good deeds?
Doing good and having the right belief go hand in hand in Islam. In
fact, doing good in practice is the proof of having the right belief
in the heart. This is why the Holy Quran speaks of true Muslims very
often as "those who believe and do good deeds". Both the Quran
and the Holy Prophet have told Muslims that the best among them is that
person who shows the best behaviour towards other people.
115.
Please give a list of some of the good qualities a Muslim must try to
acquire.
Below we give, in the words of the Holy Quran and the Holy Prophet
Muhammad, the chief qualities a Muslim should display:
1.
Truthfulness:
"O you who believe! keep your duty to Allah and speak
straight, true words." (Holy Quran 33:70)
"O you who believe, keep your duty to Allah, and be
with the truthful people." (9:119)
"Be maintainers of justice and bearers of true witness
for Allah, even if it (the truth) goes against your own selves or parents
or relatives or someone who is rich or poor." (4:135)
2.
Sincerity:
"Serve Allah, being sincere to Him in obedience."
(39:2)
"It is most hateful in the sight of Allah that you say
things which you do not do." (61:3)
"Woe to those who pray but are unmindful of their prayers,
who do good to be seen." (107:4-6)
3.
Unselfishness:
"You cannot attain to righteousness unless you spend
(in charity) out of those things which you love." (3:91)
"They (the true believers) give food, out of love for
Allah, to the poor, the orphan and the slave, saying: We feed you only
for Allah's pleasure - we desire from you neither reward nor thanks."
(76:8-9)
"Do no favour seeking gain." (74:6)
4.
Humility:
"The servants of the Beneficent (Allah) are those who
walk on the earth in humility." (25:63)
"Do not turn your face away from people in contempt,
nor go about in the land exultingly." (31:18)
"Do not ascribe purity to yourselves. Allah knows best
who is righteous." (53:32)
5.
Patience:
"Allah loves those who are patient." (3:145)
"Give good news to the patient, who, when a misfortune
befalls them, say: We are Allah's and to Him do we return." (2:155-156)
6.
Forgiveness:
"Pardon (people) and overlook (their faults). Don't
you love that Allah should forgive you." (24:22)
"(The dutiful are) . . . those who restrain their anger
and pardon people. Allah loves those who do good to others." (3:134)
"Whenever they (true believers) are angry they forgive."
(42:37)
"The recompense of evil is punishment like it. But whoever
forgives (an evil committed against himself) and amends (matters), his
reward is with Allah. . . . Whoever is patient and forgives, that is
a matter of great resolution." (42:40, 43)
When the Holy Prophet Muhammad defeated his enemies in Makka and returned
to that city as its conqueror, he forgave them in the following words:
"No reproof be against you this day; Allah may forgive
you, and He is the most Merciful of those who show mercy." (12:92)
7.
Purity and cleanliness:
"He indeed is successful who purifies himself (in mind
and body), and remembers the name of his Lord, then prays." (87:14-15)
"Purify your garments and shun uncleanness." (74:4-5)
8.
Honesty:
"Don't go near the property of an orphan, except in
a goodly way, till he attains maturity. And fulfil the promise (you
make) . . .. Give full measure when you measure out, and weigh with
a true balance." (17:34-35)
"Do not swallow up your property among yourselves by
false means, nor offer it as a bribe to the officials so that you may
swallow up other people's property unlawfully while you know."
(2:188)
9.
Goodness and kindness to others:
"Allah commands you to uphold justice and to do good
to others and to give to the relatives." (16:90)
Three degrees of doing good are mentioned here: "justice,"
which means returning any good that someone has done you with equal
good; "do good to others," which means taking the initiative
in doing good to others; and "give to the relatives," which
means doing good to people instinctively and naturally just as one does
good to one's close relatives.
"Do good to others, surely Allah loves those who do
good to others." (2:195)
10.
Consideration and respect for others:
"O you who believe! do not enter houses other than your
own until you have asked permission and greeted the inmates . . . and
if it is said to you, 'Go back', then go back." (24:27-28)
"O you who believe! avoid most of suspicion (against
others), for surely suspicion in some cases is sin; and do not spy (into
other people's affairs), nor let some of you backbite others."
(49:12)
"When you are greeted with a greeting, greet with one
better than it, or return it (in the same terms at least)." (4:86)
11.
Courage:
Speaking of a small number of Muslims facing a big and powerful enemy,
the Quran relates:
"Those to whom men said: people have gathered against
you, so fear them; but this increased their faith, and they said: Allah
is sufficient for us and He is an excellent Guardian." (3:173)
12.
Moderation:
"Eat and drink, but do not be immoderate." (7:31)
"Do not chain your hand to your neck (so that you are
mean in spending), nor stretch it out to the utmost limit (so that you
waste everything)." (17:29)
Regarding the performance of religious duties, the Holy Prophet has
given the following advice:
"Religion is easy, but any one who exerts himself too
much in religious devotions will get overcome by it; so you should just
act rightly, and keep to the mean, and be of good cheer, and ask for
Allah's help morning, evening, and a part of the night." (Bukhari.)
13.
Cheerfulness:
"Be of good cheer." (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)
"It is an act of charity to meet your fellow with a
cheerful face." (Holy Prophet in Mishkat.)
Finally, we give a verse of the Holy Quran mentioning a number of
qualities a Muslim, man or woman, should try to acquire:
"The truthful men and the truthful women, the patient
men and the patient women, the humble men and the humble women, the
charitable men and the charitable women, the fasting men and the fasting
women, the men who guard their chastity and the women who guard their
chastity, the men who remember Allah much and the women who remember
Allah much - for all these Allah has prepared forgiveness and a great
reward." (33:35)
116.
How does Islam require a Muslim to treat the people around him?
The Holy Quran and the Hadith mention various categories of people
that one has to deal with, and give a great deal of guidance on how
to behave towards them.
1.
Parents and the elderly:
"Your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him,
and do good to parents. If one or both of them reach old age with you,
do not say 'Fie' to them, nor chide them, but speak to them a generous
word . . . and say, My Lord, have mercy on them as they brought me up
when I was little." (17:23-24).
"The Holy Prophet said, It is one of the greatest sins
that a man should curse his parents. Someone said, How can a man curse
his own parents? He said, If a man abuses the father of another, that
person will abuse his parents (in return)." (Report in Bukhari.)
2.
Other Near Relatives:
"Do good to the near relatives." (4:36)
"Give to the near relative his due, and also to the
needy and to the traveller (in need of help). (17:26).
3.
Children:
"Do not kill your children for fear of poverty - We
(Allah) provide for them and for you." (17:31)
"A man came to the Holy Prophet and said, `You kiss
children but we do not kiss them'. The Holy Prophet said, `Do I have
any control over you if Allah has taken away mercy from your heart'."
(Report in Bukhari.)
4.
Orphans and destitute children:
"Maintain the orphans out of their property and clothe
them and give them a good education. Test them when they reach the age
of majority, and if you find them to be mature, hand over their property
to them." (4:5-6)
"I and the man who brings up an orphan will be in paradise
like this," said the Holy Prophet, putting together his forefinger
and middle finger. (Report in Bukhari.)
5.
Poor and needy:
"Righteous is he who . . . gives away wealth out of
love for Him to the near of kin and the orphans and the needy and the
wayfarer and to those who ask and to set slaves free." (2:177)
"What will make you understand what the uphill road
(to success) is? (It is) to free a slave, or feed at a time of hunger
an orphan who is a relative or the poor man lying in the dust."
(90:11-16)
"Have you seen him who goes against religion? That is
the one who is rough to the orphan and does not urge the feeding of
the needy." (107:1-3)
"(The true believers are those) in whose wealth there
is a known right for the beggar and the destitute." (70:24-25)
"The person who manages things for the widow and the
poor is like the one who strives hard in the way of Allah." (Holy
Prophet in Bukhari.)
6.
Neighbours:
"Be good to . . . the neighbour belonging to your people
and the alien neighbour." (4:36)
"He is not a believer who fills his stomach while his
neighbour is hungry." (Holy Prophet in Hadith.)
"The angel Gabriel continued to enjoin upon me good
treatment of the neighbour, so much so that I thought he would make
him heir to one's property." (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)
7.
Wives/Husbands:
"They (your wives) are a garment for you, and you are
a garment for them." (2:187)
"Of His (Allah's) signs is that He created spouses for
you from yourselves so that you might find quiet of mind in them, and
He put between you love and compassion." (30:21)
"The best of you are those who are kindest to their
wives." (Holy Prophet in Tirmizi.)
A man related:
"I asked Aishah (Holy Prophet's wife): What did the
Prophet do when in his house? She said, `He served his wife', meaning
that he did work for his wife." (Report in Bukhari.)
8.
Employers/Employees:
"(The true believers) are those who are keepers of their
trusts and covenants." (23:8)
"Trusts" include the duties and the other things with which
an employee is entrusted by his employer; "covenants" include
the contract by which both the employer and the employee are bound.
"Allah says: There are three persons whose opponents
I shall be on the Day of Judgment . . . (the third is) the person who
employs a servant and receives fully the labour due from him, but does
not pay his wages." (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)
Ans, a companion of the Holy Prophet, related:
"I served the Holy Prophet for ten years, and he never
said to me, `Fie', nor did he ever say `Why have you done this', or
`Why have you not done that'." (Report in Bukhari.)
9.
Animals
"There is no animal in the earth, nor a bird flying
on its two wings, but they are communities like yourselves (O people)."
(6:38)
Someone asked the Holy Prophet, "Is there a reward for us (from
Allah) for doing good to beasts?" He replied:
"In every animal having a liver fresh with life there
is a reward." (Holy Prophet in Mishkat.)
"Be careful of your duty to Allah in the matter of dumb
animals; ride them while they are in a fit condition, and eat them while
they are in a fit condition." (Holy Prophet in Abu Dawud.)
"Whoever tills a field, and birds and beasts eat from
it, it is an act of charity." (Holy Prophet in Musnad of Ahmad.)
10.
Authorities:
Regarding electing and appointing people to positions of authority,
the Quran says:
"Allah commands you to make over trusts (or positions
of trust and authority) to those worthy of them." (4:58)
Some other principles are as follows:
"Obey Allah and obey the Messenger and those in authority
from among you; then if you quarrel about anything (with your authorities)
refer it to Allah and the Messenger" (4:59), i.e. settle the disagreement
by means of the Holy Quran and the Holy Prophet's example.
"Obedience (of authority) is due only in good matters",
i.e., orders to do wrong must not be obeyed. (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)
The first head of state of the Muslims after the Holy Prophet, the
famous Hazrat Abu Bakr, said in a speech after his election:
"Help me if I am in the right. Correct me if I am in
the wrong. Obey me as long as I obey Allah and His Messenger; in case
I disobey Allah and His Messenger, I have no right to obedience from
you."
"The most excellent jihad is to speak the truth
in the face of an unjust ruler." (Holy Prophet in Mishkat.)
11.
Muslims:
"Hold fast by the covenant of Allah all together and
be not disunited. And remember Allah's favour to you when you were enemies,
then He united your hearts, so by His favour you became brethren."
(3:103)
"The believers are brethren, so make peace between your
brethren . . . Do not find fault with your own people, nor call one
another by (bad) nicknames." (49:10-12)
"Help one another in good and righteous works, and do
not help one another in sin and aggression." (5:2)
"Do not hate one another and do not be jealous of one
another and do not boycott one another, and be servants of Allah, as
brothers; and it is not lawful for a Muslim to sever his relations with
his brother for more than three days." (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)
"You will see the believers in their having mercy for
one another, and in their love for one another, and in their kindness
towards one another, like the human body: when one limb is ailing, the
whole body feels it, one part calling out the other with sleeplessness
and fever." (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)
"None of you has faith until he loves for his brother
what he loves for himself." (Holy Prophet in Bukhari.)
12.
Those who abuse Muslims:
"Bear patiently what they (abusers) say." (20:130)
"Disregard their annoying talk." (33:48)
"When you hear Allah's messages disbelieved in and mocked
at, sit not with them until they enter into some other talk." (4:140)
"And if you invite them to guidance, they hear not;
and you see them looking towards you, yet they see not. Take to forgiveness
and enjoin good and turn away from the ignorant." (7:198-199)
"The Messenger of Allah and his Companions used to forgive
the idolaters and the followers of the book (Jews and Christians), as
Allah had commanded them, and they used to show patience on hearing
hurtful words." (Report in Bukhari.)
13.
Enemies:
"Repel evil with what is best, when lo! he between whom
and you there is enmity will be like a warm friend." (41:34)
"Many of the people of the book wish that they could
turn you back into disbelievers after you have believed, out of envy
from themselves. . .. But pardon and forgive." (2:109)
"And you will always find treachery in them, except
a few of them. So pardon them and forgive. Surely Allah loves those
who do good to others." (5:13)
14.
NonMuslims:
"Allah does not forbid you concerning those people
who do not fight you because of your religion, nor expel you from your
homes, that you show them kindness and deal with them justly.. . . Allah
forbids you only concerning those people who fight you for your
religion, and drive you from your homes and help others to expel you,
that you make friends of them." (60: 8,9)
"Whatever good they (people of other religions) do,
they will not be denied it (by Allah), and Allah knows who the righteous
are." (3:115)
"O you who believe, be upright for Allah, bearers of
witness with justice; and do not let the hatred of a people incite you
not to act with justice. Be just; that is nearer to observance of duty."
(5:8)
"Call (others) to the way of your Lord with wisdom and
goodly exhortation, and argue with them in the best manner." (16:125)
"Argue not with the people of the Book (Jews, Christians,
and other people having scriptures) except by the best (means), save
those of them who act unjustly. But say: We believe in that which has
been revealed to us and revealed to you, and our God and your God is
One, and to Him we submit." (29:46)
A companion of the Holy Prophet relates:
"A funeral procession passed by the Holy Prophet, and
he stood up for it. People said to him: It was the funeral of a Jew.
He said: Was it not a human life?" (Report in Bukhari.)
15.
Mankind generally:
"Mankind is a single nation." (2:213)
"O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female,
and made you into races and families so that you may know each other.
The most honoured of you in Allah's sight are those who best keep their
duty." (49:13)
"We (Allah) have not sent you (O Muhammad) except as
a mercy to the nations." (21:107)
"Speak good words to all people." (2:83)
"Allah commands you that . . . when you judge between
people (i.e., of any race, religion, family, class, etc.), you judge
with justice." (4:58)
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